It is done. High school is officially over for my oldest child. This isn't going to be the tear-jerking, photo-heavy post you usually see around graduation time, because that isn't how Kayley's high school career ended. Believe me, there have been tears! And drama. But no pomp and circumstance. No cap and gown. No photo slideshow, sheet cake, or signatures in a guest book. And now that we're finally past all of it, I'm not sure who is …