A couple of months ago, I got a phone call from a dear friend with the terrible news that she had breast cancer. Hearing something like that just knocks the wind right out of you. I can't even imagine being on the receiving end of that diagnosis. My friend's prognosis is good, thank God! She is going through many rounds of chemo and radiation, though, and is currently in what is apparently known as the "red devil" phase of chemo. It is wiping her …